an interesting one from last week:
what makes you unhappy?
my first thought was: why focus on the negative?
my second was: well, perhaps this will be interesting.
because eliminating -- or, even better, learning to deal with -- things that make me unhappy is perhaps as important as seeking joy. here's [most of] what i came up with:
not having made plans [ie, on a weekend] and feeling trapped/isolated
feeling like i am not communicating well
pressure of procrastination
feeling out of shape/frumpy
hearing two [or more] things at once
when i feel like i'm putting someone out
being stuck somewhere in uncomfortable shoes
interrupted sleep [sadly]
impromptu changes in plans
[really, impromptu anything]
when i can't practice good medicine AND make a patient happy
not having anything to wear!
URIs and other illnesses
not having enough alone time / quiet time
technology that doesn't work
when a. doesn't sleep well
not having access to articles i want at work
while making this list didn't make me feel particularly happy, it did feel a bit empowering. because it helped me to realize that most of the items are either a) things i can control, at least to some extent or b) things i can come up with strategies to deal with.
* pretty much encompasses all multitasking
** not to be confused with spending $.
what's on your list? top 3?